
Fierce Mamas
An alliance of caregivers raising children with medical, mental, emotional, and behavioral needs—fighting for care that doesn’t fragment, fail, or forget them.
Because ALL kids deserve fierce advocates.
Fierce Mamas is a community where caregivers connect, share, and lift each other up. We know the exhaustion of navigating broken systems—and the power of finding people who understand. Together, we support one another and work toward better care for every child.
Our Vision & Mission
Our Vision
A world where every child—regardless of diagnosis, circumstance, or family situation—has access to the care, education, and support they need to thrive.
Our Mission
Fierce Mamas exists to support and advocate for parents, guardians, and caregivers of children and young adults with complex needs, including—but not limited to—medically fragile conditions, mental illness, and substance use disorders. We are committed to advancing equitable access to evidence-based care, promoting community-based resources, and challenging the stigma that too often isolates families like ours.
Our Values in Action
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Unity
We reject the false divide between “medical” and “mental.” Our children’s needs don’t fit neatly into separate boxes—and neither should their care. We stand together as one community, knowing that every child’s well-being matters equally.
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Truth-Telling
We speak with honesty about the realities of raising complex kids—without shame, sugarcoating, or apology. By naming what’s broken, we create the momentum needed to fix it. Our truth is our power.
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Compassion
We lead with empathy because we’ve been there. Every family is carrying more than the world can see, and we know the exhaustion, heartache, and hope it takes to keep showing up. Compassion isn’t weakness—it’s the force that holds us together.
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Parent Power
We are the experts on our children—because we live this every day. Our experience navigating medical systems, schools, and community resources gives us knowledge no professional training alone can provide. We bring that expertise to the table with confidence, determination, and the fierce love that drives lasting change.
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Help that Works
We demand care that actually helps—care backed by evidence, not wishful thinking or outdated beliefs about “pulling yourself up by your bootstraps.” Families like ours can’t simply gut our way through complex medical, mental, and behavioral challenges. We need proven approaches that meet our kids where they are and give them the best chance to thrive.
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Systemic Change
We’re not here to tweak the edges or rebuild a broken system. We want to rethink it from the ground up—because the structures we have were never built to serve families like ours. We bring our lived experience to the table to design something entirely different, rooted in equity, compassion, and real-world effectiveness.
Why I Started This
I’m a parent of two children with very different needs—one with rare physical conditions and developmental diagnoses, who’ll likely live with me for the rest of my life. The other with mental illness and addiction, who died far too young.
The physical, emotional, and financial cost of raising my children has been huge. It touches every single decision I make and leaves me with little wiggle room for failure, grace, or reprieve. I am so proud to be able to love them with everything I have—but it ain’t always a picnic.
What my children shared—beyond a fierce love for each other, and a minimal tolerance for my shenanigans—was how broken the systems are and were around them. So I built this—to connect, to fight, and to fiercely love our way to something better.
Who’s a Mama?
Anyone who shows up. Aunties. Stepmoms. Grandmas. Teachers. Godparents. Foster moms. If you’ve mothered a child in crisis—you belong here.
How to Get Involved
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Join Our Interest Database
Fill out our involvement survey to share your connection to these issues and how you’d like to get involved—whether that’s offering your time, skills, or simply staying informed.
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Become a Peer Mentor
Share your lived experience to guide and encourage caregivers walking a similar path.
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Serve on an Advisory Council
Help shape our programs and advocacy by bringing your insight and expertise to the table.
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Connect on Facebook
Request to join our private group to connect with our community, share your story, and find daily support and inspiration. We take privacy seriously—membership requests are reviewed to ensure a safe, respectful space for all.
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Subscribe to Our Newsletter
Stay connected with the latest news, events, resources, and action alerts—delivered straight to your inbox.
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Host a Community Conversation
Bring caregivers together in your area to share experiences, ideas, and hope—or invite us to speak at your school, workplace, or organization. It’s a great way for allies to actively participate in our mission.